Thursday, February 12, 2009


Take note, fellas. We ladies truly aren't hard to please, and there are many little things you can do to make our hearts melt every day of the year besides Valentine's Day. And most (if not all) of these suggestions do not involve opening your wallets:

1. Hold open a door for us. This is especially effective when you hold the door and let us walk through ahead of you.
2. Help us on with our coats. Every now and then. It just feels nice.
3. Talk nice about us to other people when we're not around. It will get back to us and we'll feel especially loved.
4. Suffer through a chick-flick every once in a while. It won't kill you, and you don't have to tell your friends.
5. Leave us a love note somewhere. Sure, we might wonder aloud what you're up to, but inside we're all like "isn't he the sweetest thing?".
6. If we're coming home late, turn the outside lights on for us.
7. Even better, greet us at the door. Take our coat/purse/groceries/whatever. I don't know about the rest of youall, but it thrills me when someone helps me unload groceries.
8. Kiss us in public. Yes, right in front of your friends and families. No, it doesn't have to be a full-on mauling with tongue, just nice kissing.
9. Snuggle after sex. We understand that as soon as you're done, you're done. But just give us a minute or five. Trust us, we love that stuff.
10. Say "I love you" first. Does it really matter who says it, so long as it gets said? No, but we like it when you go first sometimes.
11. Greeting cards are cheap, easy to come by, and make us feel special. Buy some.
12. Try and remember stuff. Like birthdays, for example. Write it down if you have to.
13. Be courteous/kind to our families, even if you don't like them.

Any other suggestions? Share in comments!